Dear ladies, the more signs you see, the more likely it is that your husband isn’t in love with you anymore.

He Stops Asking About Your Life

Remember those days when you and your hubby would chat about everything under the sun? The good ol’ days of sharing every little detail about your lives like it was the most important news in the world? Well, if those conversations have evaporated into thin air, it’s a red flag waving in the wind. Your husband no longer asks about your day, your work, your friends, your family…basically anything that involves you. It’s like talking to a brick wall.

He Has Withdrawn All Affection

Hugs, kisses, cuddles—oh my! Or maybe not. If your husband has stopped showing you even the tiniest bit of affection, it might be time for concern. We’re talking about the little things: no more good morning kisses, no more holding hands, and the beloved evening snuggles have gone extinct. And if you try to show him affection and he recoils like a cat from a bath, you’re in a loveless situation, hun.

He Doesn’t Instigate Physical Intimacy

It might feel like you’re dragging a boulder uphill when it comes to your intimate life. Your bedroom has turned into a chaste monastery, and any action between the sheets is purely a result of your own efforts. There’s no spark, no emotional connection—just checking off a marital duty box. If he’s not interested in being intimate, it’s more proof that the emotional intimacy has flatlined.

He Is Never Happy, No Matter What You Do

You could probably win a Nobel Prize in being the most considerate partner and still not get a thank you from him. Instead, there’s a continual litany of complaints. The coffee’s too cold, the house isn’t clean enough, the sky is too blue—okay, maybe not that extreme, but you get the picture. No matter how hard you try, nothing seems to please him, and to top it all off, he acts like you’re the luckiest person alive for any minuscule thing he does. Sounds exhausting, right?

He Disrespects You in Many Little Ways

Has he started making plans without so much as a heads-up to you? Or perhaps he’s taken up the new hobby of lying, even about trivial things. Maybe he’s spending the joint account money without discussing it with you. All these little (or not so little) acts of disrespect pile up and point to one glaring fact: he doesn’t respect you, and respect is crucial for any happy marriage. Once it’s gone, it’s a bad omen, like a canary in a coal mine.

He Flirts with Other Women

If he’s eyeing other ladies or, worse, flirting with them right under your nose, the message is loud and clear: he’s interested in other women but not in you. Whether he means to be obvious or not, those actions speak louder than words. You might even suspect infidelity or have cold, hard proof. Ouch, right? That’s a major indicator of his waning love for you.